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From Province To Capital: Phnom Penh

Preamble: Wthought long and hard about this post. It contains some horrific detail but also contains some light hearted humour. Can we really put those two things in the same post? We reached a decision. Please read on, we will warn you before you reach the more brutal words…

It was on our first night in Battambang, just as we were drifting off to sleep, when we first heard it, and we both laughed out loud. Something outside, some strange, semi-mechanical disembodied voice seemed to shout “f*ck it” five times, in a kind of rhythmic chant. Surely we don’t have a neighbour who has taught his parrot to swear in English?

Roughly every half hour it came again. F*ck it, f*ck it, f*ck it, f*ck it, f*ck it. Stop.  Every night, all night. What the hell is it? We go through several suggestions: is it a pre-recorded security device which warns intruders, in Khmer, not to enter the construction site? Is it a working generator which makes a noise which just happens to sound like English swear words? Or is that naughty parrot after all?

It’s our last night in Battambang and we’re taking one last look from our balcony across the Sangker River before we head for pastures new. “F*ck it”, it shouts from around the corner. Five times, as always.

“F*ck it”. This time closer, in the shrubbery beneath our balcony. The security guard is within earshot. I cup my hands to my ear and point to the source of the noise.

“What is that noise?”

“Toad” is his one word answer.

Are you serious? There’s a species of toad which rhythmically chants ‘f*ck it” five times once every half hour??! Well I’ve heard everything now.

Battambang,  Cambodia
Battambang

And so we leave behind Battambang, with its sedate streets, crashing thunder storms and angry toad and head to the Cambodian capital Phnom Penh, six hours on a cramped minibus with a weak AC system. We’re glad to get off, and then absolutely delighted when we look out from our new base at the pristine, glorious riverfront stretched out before us. Phnom Penh looks every inch the capital city.

Phnom Penh, cambodia riverfront
Phnom Penh

In fact, Phnom Penh is nothing like what we expected – for some reason we had a preconceived image of a dirty, scruffy city which was difficult to love, yet nothing could be further from the truth. The riverside area is a bold, confident, extrovert, westernised boulevard, bursting with activity and oozing joy, absolutely rammed with local families. Boats ply the water, traffic buzzes and people chatter and laugh, the lively cafes and bars fill street corners as if plucked from a French city and dropped into Asia, impromptu badminton courts fill spaces between trees. Smiles rule.

Phnom Penh, cambodia riverfront
Phnom Penh

Disposable income appears to be in evidence: sharply dressed couples drift through the doors of swanky restaurants, taxis take diners right to the door, expensive cars park among the tuk-tuks. We can’t help but note that these scenes are the absolute antipathy of the visions of Pol Pot and the Khmer Rouge, precisely and exactly the society that he/they sought to eliminate with their twisted take on egalitarianism and the murder of everyone perceived to have wealth or privilege. There is something terrifically satisfying that the backlash to such genocidal horror and ruthless ideology has created this city and this spirit: if he’s not rotting in hell like he should be then surely he must be turning over and over in his grave.

Evening in Phnom Penh Cambodia
Evening in Phnom Penh
Evening in Phnom Penh Cambodia
River front Phnom Penh

The Tonle Sap and Mekong rivers feed, as we said in a previous post, the gigantic Tonle Sap Lake, though the two mighty waterways do not marry there, instead making separate exits from the southern end of the lake. Moving southwards in rough parallels, the two rivers finally merge here in Phnom Penh, right in the heart of the city, creating a vast expanse of water so wide that it’s hard to convince yourself that you’re not looking at an estuary.

Phnom Penh where the Tonle Sap meets the Mekong
Confluence of rivers, Phnom Penh

Indeed, so wide is the Mekong here that it has never been bridged, the two halves of Phnom Penh are connected only by the fleet of ferries which chug back and forth across the water throughout the day, rammed with people, cars, mopeds and sackloads of something or other.

Wat Phnom, Phnom Penh Cambodia
Wat Phnom
Wat Phnom, Phnom Penh Cambodia
Wat Phnom

Clean, cared-for green spaces provide regular shelter and respite from city life. Wat Phnom sits handsomely on a small hillock, its gardens surprisingly quiet even though surrounded by roadways, but the gardens of the Royal Palace are even more tranquil, and losing ourselves amid its temples is a little reminiscent of the temples of Bangkok but without the crowds. The fee for entering the Palace is a steep 10USD each, expensive for this part of the world, and, once inside, most of the buildings sit behind locked doors and “entrée interdite” signs. The Silver Pagoda, named after its silver tiled floors, has a protective floor covering which hides every inch of the silver after which it is named. The Palace is a beautiful place but we’re not sure it’s the best value we’ve ever got for 20 dollars, to be frank.

Royal Palace Phnom Penh Cambodia
Royal Palace

Silver Pagoda, Royal Palace Phnom Penh Cambodia
Silver Pagoda

It’s when we ride the tuk-tuk out towards the killing fields that we really get a feel for the sheer number of different neighbourhoods in Phnom Penh, not so much any hint of suburbia, but more the different enclaves around shining shopping malls, or street markets, or commercial districts. Each crossroads seems to lead to another interesting pocket of modern life. But it is, inevitably, the killing fields that we are headed for, because, no matter what horrors they hold, all visitors to Phnom Penh are compelled to go.

In fact it’s best to do both the killing fields of Choeung Ek and the Genocide Museum of Tuol Sleng on the same day in order to absorb the full nightmare of the Khmer Rouge period. Or maybe to get it all done in one session, so to speak. This is a horror story which takes some taking in.

Killing fields Memorial Phnom Penh, Cambodia
Killing Fields Memorial

The Khmer Rouge revolution marched into Phnom Penh on 17th April 1975, claiming to be a revolution for the people after this nation had suffered the atrocities of the “American War” in neighbouring Vietnam. With Cambodia and its people already brought to its knees by years of bombing raids by the USA, the Khmer Rouge had overthrown a corrupt and intensely unpopular Government on the pretence of bringing freedom to the persecuted and devastated nation. Many welcomed their march into the capital, not realising that their real nightmare was only just beginning.

Killing Fields Phnom Penh, Cambodia
Site of mass graves, Choeung Ek

Within three hours of the triumphal march into the capital, the evacuation of Phnom Penh began under the false pretence of a revolution for the people, followed swiftly by similar evacuations of all major towns and cities throughout Cambodia. Khmer Rouge leader Pol Pot’s twisted ideological vision was of a nation wholly controlled by the “Angkar” (The Organisation), where dehumanisation was the norm. Every person was to work in the fields wearing their regulation issue black clothing and would own absolutely nothing other than that uniform.

Ownership of anything was an enemy of the revolution. The currency was nullified and cash became worthless, homes were confiscated or destroyed, land taken over by the Angkar. But worse, every “enemy” was to be eliminated. Anybody with wealth, privilege, an education or a profession was considered to be the enemy. Doctors, lawyers, teachers and lecturers were sent to their death, as were their families. 

The Khmer Rouge set up almost 200 hundred prisons for perceived enemies, the most notorious being Tuol Skeng, known at the time as S-21, and, even more shockingly, more than 300 locations which became known as the killing fields. Starting with the privileged, and those with wealth or education, or a profession, the soldiers of the Khmer Rouge began the process of “cleansing” Cambodia by murdering every single person who was seen not to be a peasant.

Killing Fields Phnom Penh, Cambodia
Fragments of victims’ clothing

Every form of art was the enemy, every form of religion outlawed, Buddhist monks, seen to be “lazy” by Pol Pot, were not spared. Painters, actors, poets and clergy joined the professionals on the road to death.

Two of Pol Pot’s mantras drilled into his army by brainwashing:

“To remove the grass it is necessary to remove all of the roots”

“Better to kill an innocent by mistake than to allow an enemy to survive by mistake”

At S-21, prisoners were dehumanised, tortured and starved, and forced to sign false confessions of crimes against the revolution, the signing of which consigned them to being despatched to the killing fields. And in those killing fields, something like 3 million Cambodians were murdered by their fellow countrymen who had been brainwashed into seeing genocide as a worthy objective of their new world.

Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum Phnom Penh, Cambodia
S-21, Tuol Sleng
Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum Phnom Penh, Cambodia
Tuol Sleng

WARNING…the next two paragraphs contain some graphic detail of brutality.

At Choeung Ek and similar killing field locations, pits would be dug in readiness for mass slaughter, prisoners forced to queue for their turn whilst watching those ahead of them put to their death. And death was not by shooting or poison, these people were bludgeoned to death one by one by soldiers wielding farming tools, hammers, metal rods, bamboo canes and any other crude item which was to hand. The victims had to stand in line, tied together by rope, watching each person ahead of them slaughtered and then pushed into the pit, until it was their turn.

Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum Phnom Penh, Cambodia
S-21 Tuol Sleng

Mothers were forced to watch their children murdered, killed sometimes by being held by the ankles and swung around so that their head was smashed against the so-called killing tree. And then thrown into the pit. Some time later mother was killed too. (Note: when I heard this my heart broke. I can’t shake it from my mind. Ordinary people brainwashed into smashing children’s heads. Of all the terrible things we’ve ever heard….).

Killing fields memorial, Phnom Penh, Cambodia

The rule of Pol Pot and the Khmer Rouge began to fall apart three years after the revolution, and by January 1979 he, and they, were forced into hiding and out of power by a combination of rebels from his own ranks and the Vietnamese Army. By this time the revolution was imploding, Pol Pot had become increasingly paranoid, and in-fighting within the Khmer Rouge was seeing many of its leading figures putting one another into their respective graves.

Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum Phnom Penh, Cambodia
Graves of the last prisoners S-21

The Khmer Rouge were ousted but Cambodia was not at peace for many years to come. And get this fact. After killing 3 million Cambodians, after committing acts of genocide, torture and extreme brutality, the Khmer Rouge held the legitimate Cambodia seat at the United Nations for a further FOURTEEN years until 1993, backed by most of the western world including the UK and the USA; and, of course, by China.

Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum Phnom Penh, Cambodia
Discipline rules at Tuol Sleng
Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum Phnom Penh, Cambodia

As we leave the killing fields, a young girl skips happily across the car park and giggles as she drops something, darting back to collect it and laughing with her friends. Ladies sell coconuts and Coca-Cola. Khmer soups bubble in cooking pots. Tuk-tuk drivers tout for business.

Our time at the two locations spreads across more than five hours before we return to the riverside, exhausted and emotionally drained. We sit on our balcony looking out across the modern Phnom Penh where laughter carries on, the new city thrusts itself forward and this new version of Cambodia fantastically, boldly shakes off its all too recent nightmare. We decide to shower and head to a sky bar for a beer.

looking down on the river front Phnom Penh Cambodia
Phnom Penh at night

One of the narrators at Choeung Ek is a survivor from both a Khmer Rouge prison and the killing fields: Youk Chhang, who later fled to Texas and is now Director of “DC-Cam”, the agency documenting the history of the genocide. We will have to paraphrase, but maybe in his words he explains more succinctly than anyone, how Phnom Penh, and Cambodia, has built such an amazing recovery of spirit:

“After the Khmer Rouge, everything was broken. Every city, every town, every village, every community, every family, every person…was broken. Cambodia was a broken sheet of glass. We knew that the way to recover was not to discuss how the glass came to be broken, but to try to put all the pieces back together”.

Closure: Phnom Penh exists with a new life despite its history. We wanted to reflect this so left this post intact, humour and all. The words of Youk Chhang speak more forcefully than visitors like us and have helped us to understand.

Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum Phnom Penh, Cambodia

27 Comments

  • Alison

    It is truly horrific as you say and I thought about you when I knew you were going. We went quite a few years ago and had the same feelings. Incredibly our taxi driver said it wasn’t in the school curriculum. By what you’ve written though the city is so much better than when we went. So much knowledge was lost though
    Hope you’re off to somewhere more cheerful soon 😊

    • Phil & Michaela

      Thanks Ali. It’s clearly on the curriculum now because there was a sizeable school outing at S-21 when we there. It’s a horrific piece of history but we’re full of admiration for Phnom Penh, Cambodia and its people.

  • Toonsarah

    Your reflections on the contrast between modern day Phnom Penh at play and the diktats of Pol Pot mirror exactly my feelings about the bars and restaurants of the Blloku district in Tirana.
    Although I’ve written about our visit to Tuol Sleng I haven’t yet tackled the horrors of Choeung Ek. I will do so one day but I can never decide how much to say about that killing tree, which chilled me to the bone. I think you’ve made the right decision to cover both that and the brighter side of today’s Cambodia in one post. That echos the attitude of the Cambodian people I think – not ignoring or forgetting the past, but focussing very much now on the present.

    • Phil & Michaela

      Absolutely right, Sarah. The city feels positive and forward thinking in every moment despite this history. There’ll be just a bit more about it in our next post.

      • Toonsarah

        Yes, our young guide on our visit to the Killing Fields absolutely reflected that attitude, yet was very conscious of the past too. She said that she doesn’t tell her mother how often she has to go there for her job, as having lived through the Pol Pot era the latter would be too upset. And she left us to look around on our own, as she can’t face multiple visits (as she did at Tuol Sleng too). But the rest of the time she was like any positive, upbeat young woman anywhere, and great company.

  • Mike and Kellye Hefner

    I’m almost speechless and in tears, but I learned a lot from your post. The resiliency of the Cambodian people comes through in your writing. It’s amazing that after enduring such horrors they have recovered so much in the last 40 years. I don’t know if I could visit the killing fields or Tuol Sleng, but I appreciate how you covered them here.

    • Phil & Michaela

      Thank you Kellye. I don’t think I will ever be able to shake the thought of the killing tree. Worst thing I’ve ever heard. All the more reason to celebrate the new era, particularly in the capital city.

  • Monkey's Tale

    It is really incomprehensible at how so many people can be brainwashed into killing their neighbours so brutally. And yet, it happens again and again. You wrote about the atrocities with so much compassion. On the opposite end, the frog is hilarious!! Maggie

  • Lookoom

    I also went through these sites and emotions during my stay in Phnom Penh. It is perhaps the most extreme case, the most caricatural, but this is the same crushing of the individual imposed by all the totalitarian regimes, for the benefit of a nomenclatura which enjoys all the privileges. The same logic still prevails in several countries today.

    • Phil & Michaela

      Communism is the world’s biggest lie. Kidding the people that it’s about equality when in reality it’s about the wealth of a tiny percentage at the expense of the rest.

      • Lookoom

        Exactly, Equality is not in human nature, so it must be imposed by coercion, which quickly turns into tyranny for the benefit of a nomenklatura that runs the regime.

  • leightontravels

    Phnom Penh has come a long way in recent years When I first visited in 2015 it was, to some extent, precisely that grubby dump you feared it might be. But by the time Sladja and I stopped by in the summer of 2020, on our way out of the country, I could see just how much had been done to clean up the place. Particularly down by the promenade. I’m glad you enjoyed its vibe for the most part. I didn’t get to see the Royal Palace on either of my visits for various reasons, so it was cool to see your snapshots. Just a a pity that they have cordoned off and covered up so much of it. As for the Killing Fields and Tuol Sleng… what can I say? Well done for including it and not watering down the experience, these were some of the hardest blogs I ever had to write, as I’m sure this one was for you.

    • Phil & Michaela

      It wasn’t easy to write, for sure – we were very uncertain about what tone to hit. In the end we decided that including the positive feel of the new Phnom Penh as well as the horrific history was important, and appropriate. I get the feeling you would see change now even since 2020.

  • Wandering Canadians

    It’s hard to wrap my head around the atrocities that happened here and how many people were actually killed. Learning about the dark and ugly bits of history can change a part of you. On a lighter note, the story about the toad gave me a good laugh. Thanks for sharing. Linda

  • Bama

    Wow! Phnom Penh has definitely changed a lot since my visit in 2011. While the riverside promenade looks as lovely in your photos as how it was more than a decade ago, I definitely don’t remember seeing any skyscrapers back then.

    It’s really difficult to imagine the scale of atrocity the Khmer Rouge regime committed to its own people. It’s sad to see how from time to time in the history of mankind, people like Pol Pot rise to prominence and leave nothing but destruction behind. I hope something like this will never happen again in Cambodia, or anywhere else in the world.

  • wetanddustyroads

    A frog? But now that you mention it … there is a frog in our garden and I’m sure the sounds that come out of his mouth at night sound more or less the same! I was reluctant to read this post (thanks for the warning). Even just reading “every other paragraph”, all I can say is: Pol Pot / The Khmer Rouge Revolution / Killing fields … horribly cruel and so sad!

  • Annie Berger

    Thanks for the post’s combination of lightness and darkness as the former helped me get through to the latter, Phil.
    Like me, I imagine you will never get over the horrors of the killing tree- those images still haunt me.

    What I’d forgotten or hadn’t ever known was how the same Khmer regime was represented in the UN for 14 years and their ambassador and staff sat side by side the ambassadors of the US, UK, China, with no overt repercussions. To say that appals me is among the worst of the horrors.

    • Phil & Michaela

      Unbelievable isn’t it, Annie. I fear nothing changes…the toothless organisations of the world sit on their hands while the despots do what despots have always done. Meanwhile China takes over the world, Putin invades countries and the “powers” pretend everything is rosy.

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